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What if the child talks back and loses his temper?

Listen to He Laoshi!

Children’s behavior problems may not be serious, but if they are not handled properly, they will have a great impact on children’s physical and mental health and learning and growth.

Children always talk back and lose their temper easily. What should parents do?

In fact, when children talk back, most of them have emotions in their hearts, and even many emotions are intertwined, such as dissatisfaction, anger, injustice, irritability and so on. When talking back can’t solve the problem, or lead to greater pressure and blow, losing your temper is a manifestation of your child’s helplessness and inability to cope. Why do children have such emotions? In fact, nine times out of ten, parents provoked it.

Parents are mostly unconscious.

I didn’t realize it myself

Let’s look in the mirror first.

The first mirror: no letter mirror

Many children will vomit: "I promised to accompany me, but I always left me alone because of this and that." "I clearly agreed to let me go out to play, and I changed my mind just because I was not obedient and made him unhappy." "I originally agreed to buy me a gift, because I didn’t do well in the exam, it was ruined."

Mom and dad will also be very wronged: "We are not all for your own good, but also have to work and take care of the family. No matter how busy we are, we all want to squeeze some time for you. I really can’t help it."

"I promised you to go out to play and buy gifts not only to make you happy, but also to encourage you to work hard and make progress. I hope you can become a talent. You can’t do it. I can only warn you by not letting you go out to play and not buying gifts. I hope you can take a warning and encourage you to do better next time."

In fact, for children, what can motivate them to work hard is not gifts or play, but how important he is in your heart. What matters is your work friend, whether he listens or not, his grades or him. These are all things. We ignore people’s feelings for things. Children feel bad, and they can’t do things well.

What children need is the feeling of being valued. If they promise not to do so, they will arouse their emotions.

The second mirror: double standard mirror

Parents’ two sets of standards are spit out by children:

1. Parents watch mobile phones for work or relaxation, while children watch mobile phones for fun;

2. It is hard for parents to sleep at 12 o’clock, and children will not arrange time to sleep at 12 o’clock;

3. Parents are good for their children when they lose their temper, and children are not sensible when they lose their temper;

4. Take the advantages of other people’s children to benchmark the shortcomings of their own children;

5. When my brother loses his temper, my mother will coax him, and when I lose my temper, my mother will get angry.

The third mirror: haha mirror

Unrealistic expressions, such as: parents don’t understand the situation and children are misunderstood; Parents will criticize in a general and generalized way. If they are late twice, they will say: You are always late and don’t care about your study at all; Parents like to turn over old scores. What happened a few years ago has long been changed, and it will be brought out to talk about things.

The fourth mirror: the authoritative mirror

Parents are used to nagging, reasoning, and using authoritative methods. They don’t convince their children, or they don’t understand the reasons why their children don’t do or can’t do it. They just ask their children to obey blindly. If they are not convinced, they will want to express their ideas and talk back with emotion.

There are two extremes in blindly forcing children to change. One extreme is that there is a child in your family who is stubborn and doesn’t bow his head easily. A strong approach will arouse his greater emotions to confront you, and will also inspire his fighting spirit to think of more ways to fight with you. In the end, your attention is focused on defeating each other, ignoring the really important learning and growth. At the other extreme, parents have successfully suppressed their children, and your children have gradually become good children who dare not express, dare not say no, and have no ideas of their own, or have formed a mode of suppressing emotions and forbearing to please.

In either case, the problems may be magnified or even erupted when you are in adolescence or when you are faced with the high pressure of the college entrance examination. If you solve them at that time, the price you have to pay will be great, and even some effects will be irreversible.

Therefore, to solve the problem of children talking back and losing their temper from the root, both parents and children need to work together and change at the same time.

So how to change it?

Two magic weapons for you

Magic Weapon 1: Harmonious Trilogy (Parents)

Step 1: When the child talks back and loses his temper, mom and dad should keep calm.

If you can’t, you can meditate in your mind:

When a child loses his temper, he is actually only three years old. I am * * * years old. I am not as knowledgeable as a three-year-old child, and I don’t want to be three years old. I’ll talk to him when he calms down.

Step 2: Look at yourself with four mirrors. What provoked the child just now?

If we find ourselves falling into the situation of the first three mirrors, and our children are wronged, we need to sincerely apologize. If it’s the situation reflected in the fourth mirror [authoritative mirror], it’s obvious that the way of authoritative coercion doesn’t work for your child. We need to change the way and can’t confront the child head-on.

Step 3: Listen carefully to your child’s thoughts, express your expectations, find what you want together, and discuss with your child how to reach an agreement.

When the child is calm after the problem is solved. We need to have an after-the-fact talk with our children and express how you hope that in the future, when children are emotional and dissatisfied with you, they can talk in addition to talking back and losing their temper. If you do something inappropriate, ask your child to look in the mirror and express his thoughts and feelings directly, instead of talking back.

Magic weapon 2: can use four-step expression (children)

1. You just said …;

2. I feel very … (emotional);

3. Because … (Tell the truth reflected by the faithless mirror, the double-standard mirror, the haha mirror and the authoritative mirror);

I want to … (say what I think).

Of course, the next time a child uses the four-step expression, parents should not become angry from embarrassment. They need to take the initiative to enter the Harmony Trilogy, adjust their state, look at themselves in the mirror, and discuss with their children how to solve the current problems. Don’t forget to praise the children in this process! Because of his active expression, you can avoid misunderstanding and quarrel, and help you grow up by reminding you.

Mom and dad,

When children talk back,

Let’s not lose our temper,

Try to look in the four mirrors and find the problem.

Guide children to use four-step expressions.

When you find a problem, you have a chance to solve it.

Change takes time to accumulate,

Let’s take our time together.

He yanhong

Yiwu maisuihua family education guidance center tutor

Jane, quick and happy relationship tutor

National registered second-level psychological counselor

Adolescent mental growth tutor

Source | Yiwu Women

Original title: "Happy E Home Classroom | What should I do if my child talks back and loses his temper? 》

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China Economic Weekly-Economic News On December 8, the opening ceremony of the 6th CBSA Chinese Billiards World Championship in China Jiangxi Shangrao Yushan was staged in Yushan Sports Center Square.

Present at the opening ceremony were Jia Zhisheng, deputy director of the Mass Sports Department of the State Sports General Administration, Zhao Liping, vice chairman of China Billiards Association, Gan Liantong, vice chairman of China Billiards Association and Beijing Star Group, Yang Musheng, deputy director of Jiangxi Provincial Political Consultative Conference, Xiao Liqing, deputy secretary-general of Jiangxi Provincial Political Consultative Conference and full-time vice chairman of the Provincial Committee of Jiu San Society, Jin Ziwei, member and deputy director of Jiangxi Provincial Sports Bureau, Qiu Xiangjun, deputy secretary of CPC Shangrao Municipal Committee and mayor. Zhu Meiqing, Vice Mayor of Shangrao Municipal Government; Mao Zubin, Secretary General of Shangrao Municipal Government; Luo Laishui, Party Secretary and Director of Shangrao Sports Bureau; Zheng Guoliang, Secretary of Yushan County Committee of the Communist Party of China; Yu Honglei, Deputy Secretary of Yushan County Committee of the Communist Party of China; Gan Jialing, General Manager of Beijing Xingwei Sporting Goods Co., Ltd.; Batuga Osol, Minister of Sports and Culture of Mongolia; Narambata Joygawa, First Deputy Minister of Mongolia International Olympic Committee; Likit Intabang, Secretary General of Laos International Olympic Committee; and Kaihua and Jiangshan, Zhejiang Players from 41 countries and regions around the world, domestic first-line referees, nearly 100 mainstream media representatives and anchors also attended the opening ceremony.

As a billiards project with independent intellectual property rights in China, Chinese billiards became popular in China as soon as it came out in 1980s. In 2012, the Small Ball Sports Management Center of the State Sports General Administration and Star Brand jointly announced the name "Chinese billiards", and Chinese billiards was also recognized as a formal sport by the State Sports General Administration, and the sport began to get on the right track.

In 2015, the China Billiards Association initiated the CBSA Chinese Billiards World Championship, which accelerated the internationalization of Chinese billiards, made Chinese billiards gradually accepted by billiards players and fans all over the world, and spread the rules and skills of Chinese billiards around the world. Now, more and more countries and regions have begun to incorporate it into their own billiards system, and Chinese billiards has become an important part of the world billiards.

A total of 496 players from 41 countries and regions participated in this Chinese billiards World Championships, and the number of participating countries and participants reached a new high, making it the largest Chinese billiards competition in the world. The total prize money of the tournament is 10.43 million RMB, which is the highest in the world, including 3 million for the men’s team and 1 million for the women’s team. In the next eight days, billiards groups from all over the world will stage the battle of the peak of Chinese billiards and compete for the honor of world champion.

At the opening ceremony, Jia Zhisheng, deputy director of the Mass Sports Department of the State Sports General Administration, delivered a wonderful speech: "The Chinese Billiards World Championship is a benchmark and model for the development of high-quality events in Jiangxi Province, which will further promote the promotion of Chinese billiards in the world, further increase the positive impact on the economic and social development of Yushan and even Jiangxi, and make contributions to promoting friendly exchanges and exchanges between China and other countries in the world."

Zhao Liping, vice chairman of China Billiards Association, fully affirmed the significance of the Chinese Billiards World Championships: "The number of participating countries and the number of participants in the Chinese Billiards World Championships have reached a new high, which not only shows that more and more countries and regions like and participate in Chinese billiards, but more importantly, more and more countries and regions have recognized the regularity, professionalism and authority of the Chinese Billiards World Championships."

Gan Liantong, vice chairman of China Billiards Association and Beijing Xingpai Group, said: "The Chinese Billiards World Championships is not only a simple sports event, but also the achievements and honors of all athletes. It is a platform for billiards people all over the world to communicate and enhance their friendship, and it is also a platform to show the charm of Chinese billiards and Yushan."

Chinese billiards world championships have grown from scratch, and the governments of Jiangxi Province, Shangrao City and Yushan County have made great contributions. Zhu Meiqing, deputy mayor of Shangrao Municipal Government, said: "We will adhere to the concept of" running a good game and invigorating a city ",make full efforts to promote the deep integration of" sports+culture+tourism "with the help of competitions and the media, accelerate the building of Yushan into a world-class venue for billiards competitions, and let more billiards lovers enter Shangrao, enjoy life and experience happiness."

In recent years, Yushan has made every effort to build a county-level sports brand featuring billiards, successfully held five Chinese billiards world championships, four Chinese snooker world open tournaments and Chinese billiards international professional leagues, and implemented three major industrial projects, namely, "International Billiards Culture City, Star Billiards Industrial Park and Top Billiards Tournament", gradually stepping out of the characteristic road of high-quality development of county-level sports from resources to products, from products to events, from events to cultures, and from cultures to brands. Zheng Guoliang, secretary of the Yushan County Committee of the Communist Party of China, said: "We will adhere to the new development concept of openness and sharing, adhere to integrity and innovation, and strive to create a’ safe, comfortable and beautiful’ competition and living environment for each contestant, and strive to make this competition a passionate stage, enhance friendship and promote development, and make every effort to create China style, Jiangxi characteristics, Shangrao style and Yushan charm."

Chinese billiards world championships have been held for many years and have been supported by many international billiards organizations and national billiards associations. The vigorous development of Chinese billiards has become a powerful link between China and the world. Batuga Osol, Minister of Sports and Culture of Mongolia, said: "The Chinese Billiards World Championships is the highest level Chinese billiards competition in the world, and it will surely be a fierce and wonderful competitive feast. I am also looking forward to seeing the friendship and team spirit among the players and creating unforgettable moments on this stage. "

At the opening ceremony, there were also wonderful cultural performances, and the creative programs which blended Chinese and Western cultures reflected the internationalization of Chinese billiards and the unique charm of Yushan, a world famous billiards city.

Finally, the leaders jointly kicked off, and Qiu Xiangjun, deputy secretary of Shangrao Municipal Committee of the Communist Party of China and mayor, announced the official opening of the 6th Chinese Billiards World Championship.

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Since the evening before yesterday, the temperature in Hangzhou has turned straight down.

At 15 o’clock the day before yesterday, the temperature in Hangzhou was 26.1℃, and at 23 o’clock in the evening, the temperature was only 12.2℃. In just 8 hours, the temperature dropped by nearly 14℃. Yesterday, the lowest temperature in Hangzhou was 11℃. The temperature in the whole day seemed to have no heartbeat, and there was almost no fluctuation. By 14 o’clock, the temperature in Hangzhou was only 11.4℃.

Just when Hangzhou people "spit" spring is like the four seasons, many friends said:Not only is the four seasons in Hangzhou chaotic, but it snows heavily in Henan!

With the cold air heading south, rain and snow occurred in parts of Henan, Shanxi, Shaanxi, Hubei and other places from yesterday morning to morning, and snowfall mainly occurred in southeastern Shaanxi, southwestern Shanxi and western Henan.

Yesterday morning, heavy snow fell in Luoyang, Henan Province, and "Snow in Henan" once rushed to the top of the hot search. In the afternoon, snowflakes floated in Zhengzhou, the provincial capital.

Yesterday morning to afternoon, the snowfall (turning into water) in Luanchuan, western Henan Province has exceeded 20 mm, reaching the level of heavy snowstorm. The local meteorological observatory has issued a yellow warning signal of snowstorm red warning signal and road icing. The snow is as thick as a quilt, and it is 18 cm at 14: 00, which is rare in March. The local snow record in March is 20 cm (March-April, 1992).

On March 16, many places in Henan ushered in snowfall, with moderate to heavy snow and partial blizzard in some areas. As of 15: 00, Lushi County, Songxian County, Ruzhou City, lingbao city City and Dengfeng City in Henan Province have issued red warnings for snowstorms. The reporter learned from the Henan Meteorological Bureau that this round of snowfall was mainly caused by low-level southward cold air and strong southerly warm and humid airflow.

Due to the rapid warming in the early stage, the current Henan is full of red flowers, green willows and green spring colors. And the arrival of this round of rain and snow cooling weather, press the "deceleration button" for spring warming. In Zhengzhou, the provincial capital, the rainfall that began to appear on the morning of the 16th gradually increased. In the afternoon, the sky was covered with patches of snow, and the temperature was also lower, and the chill burst. In Luoyang, Sanmenxia and other places, heavy snow fell from the sky and soon covered the earth with "white clothes".

According to the analysis of meteorologists from Henan Meteorological Bureau, this round of snowfall in Henan is mainly caused by the low-level southerly cold air and the strong southerly warm and humid airflow. On the 15th, the cold air southward caused a sudden drop in temperature, forming a cold air cushion near the ground. The abundant water vapor carried by the warm and humid airflow with strong southerly direction quickly climbed on the cold cushion, condensed or condensed, and then landed on the ground, forming the snowfall in Henan. In addition, the temperature in the western mountainous area of Henan province is lower, and the snowfall occurs earlier. The precipitation phase in the central area will gradually change from rain to sleet or snow with the further decrease of temperature.

According to the monitoring of Henan Meteorological Observatory, at 7: 00 to 11: 00 on March 16th, moderate rain and snow occurred in some counties and cities in Sanmenxia, Luoyang, Jiaozuo and Nanyang, and local snowstorms occurred. The top three snowfalls are Xin ‘an 19 mm, Lushi 10.3 mm and Luanchuan 9.6 mm respectively.

The Henan Meteorological Observatory predicts that there will be heavy precipitation from the afternoon of the 16th to the first half of the night, and some counties and cities such as Luoyang, Zhengzhou, Pingdingshan and Nanyang will have moderate to heavy snow and local snowstorms. Xinyang is rainy with lightning. After midnight, the precipitation gradually weakened and moved out of Henan Province.

The Henan Meteorological Observatory issued a blue warning of blizzard at 11: 00 on the same day: It is estimated that there will be more than 5 mm of snowfall in Sanmenxia, Luoyang, Pingdingshan, central and northern Nanyang, Zhengzhou, western Xuchang, Jiyuan, western Jiaozuo, western Xinxiang and western Anyang during the day and night, including more than 10 mm of snowfall in Sanmenxia, Luoyang, western Zhengzhou, western Pingdingshan and northern Nanyang. At 9: 30 on the same day, the Henan Meteorological Observatory also issued a yellow warning for road icing.

Snow in March is also called "Peach Blossom Snow"When the peach blossoms are in full bloom, the wind blows the petals like snow, and later people call the snowflakes falling with the peach blossoms peach blossom snow.

You know, a week ago, Zhengzhou experienced the "summer" in advance, and the highest temperature exceeded 30℃. A week later, it began to "peach blossom snow" in March, which was really a random crossing of the four seasons.

In addition, from the weather phenomenon and lightning monitoring, some parts of Henan province have been thundered and snowed.

Many netizens feel quite puzzled.It’s March, and it snows at this time, and it can also thunder and snow. Is it abnormal?

According to the analysis of China Weather Network,At this time, it is in the season of alternating cold and warm, and it is normal to snow. In previous years, it snowed in April.Snowfall is mainly caused by the combined influence of warm and humid airflow in the south and the cold air infiltrating from the lower level to the south, and some areas are also caused by topography. For example, in mountainous areas with higher altitude, the temperature is lower, which is prone to snowfall.

As the cold air moves south, rain and snow will also change in some areas, and the snowfall area will spread further south. For example, in Mianchi, Henan Province, it rained from about 5 am yesterday, and it snowed from around 6 am to 10 am. The accumulated snowfall has reached 9 mm.

The phenomenon of "thunder and snow" has also happened in many places.When it snows, because the strong warm and humid airflow meets the strong cold air, the warm and humid air is forced to rise, resulting in strong convection, which creates conditions for the formation of lightning, and the phenomenon of "thunder hitting snow" appears.

Some people say, "It snows in have no martial ethics only after the flowers bloom", while others care.: I wonder if crops will have an impact?

Henan Meteorology said that due to the lack of precipitation in Henan Province in the early stage, the proportion of 0 ~ 10 cm short of moisture monitoring stations reached 55% (note: moisture is an important monitoring indicator of drought, mainly reflecting the situation of soil water content), and the forest fire risk rating was also high.This rain and snow process is very beneficial to improving soil moisture, ensuring wheat growth and reducing forest fire danger.It is expected that the rain and snow will gradually stop in most areas in the latter half of the night, but the cold in spring is still there. In the morning after tomorrow, the temperature in Henan Province is mostly around 0-5℃, and there are many fogs at the same time.

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Beijing, January 29th, 2007 (Reporter Wang Xian, Wang Dianjia) According to the report of China Voice, China Radio and Television Station, this winter, "polar fleece wearing" swept the fashion circle, not only appeared more "velvet" figures in the streets and lanes, but also the discussion on social media became more and more enthusiastic. Many "Thousand Praise Notes" shared the color matching and brand selection of polar fleece. How did polar fleece, once labeled as "cheap" and "earthy", become the new favorite of fashion? What advanced technology does it adopt on the technical level? In the future, what kind of changes and upgrades may polar fleece usher in?

China Voice "News with Views" of China Central Radio and Television General Station specially planned "Industry Insight", and talked with Chen Ye, a professor and doctoral supervisor of the School of Materials Science and Engineering of Donghua University, and Cheng Wai, the head of scientific research and development planning of a well-known clothing material manufacturer in China, to learn about the "past lives" of polar fleece and look forward to more possibilities of the polar fleece market.

Chen Wei (Photo courtesy of Yang Guangwang)

Cheng Wai (Photo courtesy of respondents from Yangguang. com)

"velvet" clothing has become a winter trend.

How did polar fleece enter the fashion circle?

At present, cashmere sweater has become a popular choice for consumers to wear in winter, and there has been a topic with a reading volume of 220 million on social media # Don’t ask why you love to wear polar fleece #, and young people who are pursuing fashion are integrating "cashmere" clothing into their daily wear. Zheng Huikepu, head of science and technology R&D planning of a well-known clothing material manufacturer in China, said that these "cashmere" worn by young people can not be simply classified as polar fleece, but they are all artificial plush fabrics in essence, which are generally distinguished according to style, technology and feel.

Chen Ye, a professor and doctoral supervisor at the School of Materials Science and Engineering, Donghua University, added that all kinds of cashmere fabrics, such as coral wool, polar wool and lamb wool, are mainly composed of chemical fibers. These fibers are light, warm and soft to the touch after multiple processes such as dyeing, napping, combing and shearing.

In fact, polar fleece and other velvet fabrics are not new things, but they have recently become the winter trend of tracer element. Chen Ye analyzed from two aspects. First of all, for the sake of public welfare, the fashion industry is reducing the materials used for animal fur and switching to materials made of chemical fiber, which provides a larger market space for fabrics such as polar fleece; Secondly, from the functional point of view, polar fleece fabric is not only soft and warm, but also easier to care for and clean than natural fur fabrics such as pure lamb wool, which is more attractive to young people who pursue a convenient life.

Zheng Hui explained from the aesthetic level that the popularity of polar fleece is inevitable. Polar fleece, which once had the label of "fashion disaster", has overcome the inherent impression of "bloated and difficult to control" through fine improvement of technology. The brand has developed new products such as fine polar fleece, and the fineness of cashmere has been significantly improved. Designers use zippers, buttons and other accessories to innovate material splicing and color matching, break the dullness and make polar fleece younger. In addition, the collocation of polar fleece clothing with jeans, old shoes or sweatpants, etc., is handsome or gentle in style, which also shows its collocation diversity and fashion potential.

Polar fleece fabric can control all kinds of colors (photo courtesy of respondents from Yangguang. com)

"Black technology" plus code, polar fleece is not what it used to be

What does the scientific research and development of "velvet" mainly depend on?

Compared with the early polar fleece, the polar fleece on the market has been significantly improved in touch, vision and technology. Chen Ye introduced that the advent of polar fleece was originally to meet the demand of outdoor activities for faster drying and lightweight textiles. At that time, it was mainly made of polyester fiber, and the fabric of the product was relatively heavy. With the technological progress, the current polar fleece fabric has a delicate grain feel and a feel close to that of fine lamb cashmere or real lamb cashmere. In addition, modern fabrics adopt superfine fiber and hollow technology, which reduces the gram weight and makes them more portable to wear; The development of bionic technology and the progress of granulation technology also make polar fleece fabrics more and more high-grade.

The continuous progress of polar fleece fabric can not be separated from the continuous innovation of scientific research and development. Cheng Wai’s enterprise, as one of the earliest pioneers engaged in polar fleece production in China, has established a relatively mature research and development system of school-enterprise cooperation. The company not only has a special Post-Doctoral Research Center, but also implements a talent introduction plan for graduates, and has established long-term cooperative relations with Donghua University and other universities. Through "Industry-University-Research Application", the scientific research results are applied to product development, and the polar fleece is directionally optimized, including enhancing the warmth of products and developing the versatility of fabrics.

At the same time, changes in market demand will drive enterprises to continuously carry out technological innovation. Based on market research and brand strategy, companies usually make corresponding technical adjustments and optimizations for consumers’ preference feedback and problems in product use. Cheng Wai revealed: "After gaining an insight into the market demand, we will start to solve key technical problems and strive to overcome technical bottlenecks through school-enterprise cooperation."

Polar fleece production workshop (photo courtesy of interviewee from Yangguang. com)

Made in China, it screams loudly.

Where will polar fleece go in the future?

Chen Ye pointed out that although fleece fabrics such as polar fleece originated in the United States, the China market has occupied a leading position in this field and continues to supply fabrics to international brands. "Because the raw materials of polar fleece and other velvet products are mostly polyester fibers represented by polyester, China is the largest polyester producer in the world, and it has shown its leading edge in high-level manufacturing technology and equipment." Cheng Wai said that from the past experience of enterprises participating in overseas exhibitions, their exhibits and fabrics were very popular in international exhibitions in Europe and America, and received positive feedback from overseas frontier markets.

Facing the future, Chen Ye predicted that in terms of preparation technology, polar fleece materials will pay more attention to simulation, and the fibers will become more delicate and soft, while maintaining a better hollow structure to enhance thermal insulation. The shape retention of materials is also an important direction of development, ensuring that they can still maintain curl elasticity after repeated washing. In addition, in the aspect of antistatic performance that consumers pay close attention to, at present, by adding antistatic agents or embedding functional particles, fiber fabrics have already possessed initial antistatic ability. In the future, if more thorough antistatic effect is achieved, it will bring great innovation to polar fleece and artificial velvet materials.

Polar fleece processing has a complicated process, as shown in the picture, the product is "brushed" by the "brushing" machine (photo courtesy of respondents sent by Yangguang. com)

Cheng Wai said that with the increasing environmental awareness of consumers, the development of new materials will tend to use renewable and degradable raw materials, and achieve the same performance and quality as the original materials through technical means to ensure ecological safety. In addition, the progress of science and technology will also promote the improvement of the versatility of clothing materials. In addition to keeping warm, the future polar fleece may also have the characteristics of low static electricity, wind and cold resistance, flame resistance and so on.

According to the data of a domestic head shopping platform, the prices of the 1000 best-selling polar fleece items are mostly below 300 yuan, among which the polar fleece items from 200 yuan to 299 yuan are the most popular. With the superposition of multi-functions, will "cheap velvet" no longer be cheap? Chen Ye pointed out that the increase of R&D cost may lead to price increase. "However, compared with real wool or cashmere, the price will still be more affordable and friendly." At the same time, when the market is growing and the technology is mature, the scale effect can reduce the production cost, thus keeping the product price at a reasonable level. Therefore, the development of science and technology and the operation of the market will balance the pricing of high-quality products and will not cause excessive economic burden to consumers.

Colorful polar fleece fabric (photo courtesy of respondents from Yangguang. com)

Our reporter Roman

During the Spring Festival, the happiest thing is for the whole family to sit around and have a reunion dinner. However, for homeless vagrants, it is an extravagant hope to have a reunion dinner with their families. In order to let the rescuers have a warm and happy New Year, this (5th) morning, Luzhou Rescue Management Station specially held a Spring Festival Youth League activity for them.

Sticking Spring Festival couplets and decorating … The staff of the rescue station began to decorate the station for the upcoming Spring Festival a few days ago to create a festive New Year atmosphere. Early this morning, everyone began to be busy, preparing melons, fruits, snacks and delicious food for the recipients.

At noon, the recipients put on beaming new cotton-padded jackets, sat around, watched TV and had a reunion dinner to celebrate the New Year.

According to Jiang Weifen, the stationmaster of the municipal rescue management station, there are currently 14 recipients in the municipal rescue management station, four of whom have recently entered the station and are still in isolation. Due to the need of epidemic prevention and control, there are 10 recipients attending the annual meeting of the group today, and they also eat separately, and the other four are delivered by special personnel.

The staff served meals for everyone.

At the annual meeting of the Communist Youth League, although everyone wore masks, it was hard to hide their joy. The recipients and the staff were talking and laughing together, and they were very happy. Several recipients even danced with the music. The scene was full of laughter, joy and peace.

Jiang Weifen told reporters that all the 14 recipients at present have mental and intellectual disabilities, and they have not found out their identity and family information. The longest time to come to the station has been more than one year, of which the youngest is 15 years old and the oldest is about 70 years old.

Maybe they have a home in their heart, but they don’t know where they come from, where their home is, and whether they have any family. In the city rescue management station, the staff treat them as relatives and children, and take care of them patiently and carefully, so that they have a place to live and a "home". Having a reunion dinner together on the occasion of the New Year makes them feel the festive atmosphere and the warmth of home. This is undoubtedly the embodiment of the motherland’s growing strength, social civilization’s progress and love everywhere in the new era.

Original title: "This is a special reunion dinner …"

After Brazil reached the World Cup quarter-finals, I believe all Brazilian fans around the world share my feelings: it’s been 20 years, and it’s finally dawn.

Don’t think that abusing South Korea is nothing. Now the South Korean team is no longer Amon. Looking at today’s football, no team except Brazil can win so brutally, thoroughly and heartily against South Korea. France can’t, England can’t, and Argentina can’t, but Brazil, which vowed to win for Pele, who is seriously ill, can.

Being a Brazilian fan is a very unique experience. On the one hand, it is very cool. Every World Cup is a favorite to win the championship, and there are warm expectations every four years. On the other hand, it’s very painful, because Brazil always fails if it doesn’t win the World Cup, but winning the World Cup requires not only strength, but also various coincidences, so more often, Brazilian fans will end their mental journey of the World Cup in disappointment.

Brazil has not won the championship for 20 years. What happened to the Brazilian team in these 20 years? Let me give you a brief stroke.

In 2006, Brazil claimed to be the strongest in nearly 40 years. However, arrogant soldiers are bound to lose. Please go back to the iron coach Pereira, who can’t relax put in order’s tactical discipline. When Henry beat Brazil, Carlos, the world’s number one left-back, was tying his shoelaces. Let us remember this little bald head that makes people love and hate.

In 2010, Brazil, with dim stars but strong integrity, was the only team that ever beat Spain in the Confederations Cup. In the knockout against the Netherlands, it not only took the lead, but also completely controlled the situation. However, a guy named Melo suddenly went crazy, making an own goal before a red card. Let’s remember the name Melo.

In the 14th and 18th World Cups, Brazil really can’t do it. Neymar is the only one who makes waves in the attack line. In 2014, Neymar and Tiago were absent, and in 2018, the two main full-backs were absent. However, these are not the main reasons for being eliminated, because from beginning to end, the Brazilian team did not show the dominance that the champions should have. The midfielder who wore the No.10 jersey in the 14th World Cup was Oscar, the one who later joined the Super League. He was a typical diligent organizer at Chelsea, diligent? What is the difference between this and swearing? Let’s remember the name Oscar, the worst midfield organizer in Brazilian history. The striker arrow of the 18th World Cup is Jesus, the one who just retired due to injury. His retirement is definitely good for Brazil. He may be an excellent striker in other teams, but he can only be regarded as a loser in Brazil. Let us remember the name Jesus, the worst striker arrow in Brazilian history.

Brazil’s group match was 2 wins and 1 loss, and it didn’t sweep all the way, but why is Brazil considered the biggest favourite to win the championship? Because Brazil only played Serbia in the first game and South Korea in the fourth game, not only the top star Neymar was absent due to injury, but even other players left half their strength.

Playing Serbia, Brazil showed the ability to control the field, basically did not let Serbia have any strength to fight back, and finally defeated this potential dark horse in many people’s hearts 3-0; Facing South Korea in the first match of the knockout, it is an all-round display of offensive firepower. I can say responsibly that this Brazilian team is stronger than the champion team led by 3R in 2002. Brazil beat China 4-0, but now this Brazilian team only needs half time to beat South Korea 4-0. If it doesn’t take the initiative to stop, a bloody case may happen at any time.

How strong is this Brazilian team? So strong that they don’t need full-back assists anymore. As we all know, the Brazilian team has never lacked epic full-backs. At present, the main full-backs in Brazil are Danilo and Sandro, which are not the top players in the world and far from the ability of Carlos and Cafu. The substitutes behind them are Alves, who spent nearly forty years brushing data with soy sauce, and Telles, who went home because of injury. In recent decades, looking around the world, we have almost never seen such a "greedy" full-back. When Brazil played offensive football, these two full-backs never forgot their responsibilities as defenders, and they managed the defense wholeheartedly. Wang Shenchao and Wang Gang of the national football team were more active in attacking than Brazil.

Why do Brazilian full-backs seldom take part in the attack? Because of three words: no need. There are as many as nine strikers in Brazil this time. Except for Jesus and Richarlyson, the other seven have winger attributes, and even Richarlyson made his debut as a winger. The winger is almost the answer to the version of football in this era. Brazil has so many wingers and all of them are excellent. The last guy is Anthony, and Manchester United spent 100 million yuan to buy him. You said, why do you need a full-back assist?

In fact, Brazil has not won the championship for 20 years, largely because Brazil has been short of excellent attackers since Ronaldinho retired. I don’t know when Brazil’s most sought-after players in Europe are divided into three categories, the first category is goalkeepers, the second category is central defenders, and the third category is engineers’ midfielders who do dirty work. The homogenization of Brazil’s talents is similar to that of Spain and Germany, which can’t find a center, so they have been tossing the ball around in the middle and back court.

This phenomenon has a lot to do with the tactical changes brought about by the last 24-year World Cup in Brazil. During those 24 years, Brazilian attack experts emerged one after another, attacking beautifully and defending bean curd dregs. After learning from a painful experience, Brazil began to focus on cultivating defensive engineers and redefining tactical discipline.

Brazil won the championship in 1994 and in 2002, which are essentially the same. The first time was a big shovel with romario and Bei Beituo in front and dirty work behind it, and the last time was a big shovel with 3R in front and dirty work behind it. The reason why this match can be established is that the big shovel for doing dirty work in Brazil is different from that in other countries. The big shovel in other countries is a pure engineer, and all Brazilian players have excellent ball-throwing ability, ball control ability and organization ability. Brazil’s big shovel, which won the championship twice, is more capable of threading the needle than English epic midfielder Steven Gerrard, such as gilberto silva.

However, no matter how offensive and defensive the back is, it is absolutely impossible without the arrow of the front line. In recent ten years, except for Neymar, other attackers in Brazil are really bad. Until this World Cup cycle, Brazil finally ushered in a blowout of attacking talents. Today, the reserve of Brazilian attackers is second only to the quintet of Ronaldinho, Kaka, Robinho and Adriano in 2006. However, that Brazilian team was eliminated by France long ago. When it beat Ghana 3-0 in the first round of the knockout round, there was no whole, and the tactical content was extremely poor. Now the overall cohesion of the Brazilian team is extremely tight.

Of course, Brazil also has rivals in winning the World Cup. The strongest opponent this year is still France, which not only plays well, but also is the natural enemy of Brazil.

Since the 1980s, Brazil has been defeated by France in the World Cup, and fell to France in 1986, 1998 and 2006. The French team has a solid footwork, tight defense in the center and backcourt, and at the same time, there is no shortage of skills and attack experts at the foot, which really beats Brazil in style. However, due to the absence of Kantor and Bogba, the French team changed its attack route. Although Mbappé was in a state of explosion and Gleizman became an excellent organizer, Brazil really didn’t like this type of France, and the two sides were still 60% sure of playing Brazil.

Thankfully, after a lapse of 20 years, the World Cup has returned to Asia. As the only "football kingdom" in the world, Brazil has also seen the possibility of returning to the top. By the way, do you remember those names just now? Melo, Oscar and Jesus, if you are not an Arsenal fan this season, you may have forgotten these names again, because although these players once represented Brazil in the World Cup, they never shocked people from their achievements to their playing methods. Even if they wore Brazil’s bright yellow shirts, they would not leave too many memories in the hearts of fans.

Football fans support a team and want nothing more than two things: excellent results and beautiful games, which are exactly what Brazil must have at the same time when it wins the World Cup.

That’s why we can remember the gorgeous representatives of Brazil: Ronaldo with a lucky head, Ronaldinho who cheated the English goalkeeper Seaman, Roberto Carlos whose thigh circumference is thicker than anyone else, and of course, Brazil’s eukaryotic Neymar now;

That’s why, I will also remember those tough backbones of Brazil: Taffarel, who is not well known, Dunga, who is not handsome, and thiago silva, who is now an old and strong captain.

There is only one Brazilian team in the world, but Brazil has more than one kind of football content. In 2022, Brazil in Qatar may not present the world wave that Ronaldinho did at the beginning, but they will always have a wonderful volley side hook like Richarlyson, and at the same time defend their own goal with tough defense and tough confrontation.

So 20 years later, when the World Cup returns to Asia, we seem to see the excellent hope that the World Cup will return to Brazil. Especially when they pull out the banner of "Fight for Bailey", so that more people are willing to stand behind them. There is already a king in heaven, so let another one stay with us for a while on earth.

The World Cup needs Brazilian football, and the world needs Brazilian football more.

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"After five years of marriage, my husband and I have never shared a room." A special female patient came to the doctor’s office.

In 2017, 26-year-old Ms. Zhang married her husband shortly after they met, and the family has been looking forward to their having a child. However, in the past five years, the most intimate actions between husband and wife are only holding hands and hugging. Every time she was in the same room, Ms. Zhang was extremely scared, pinching her legs, sweating all over, and even retching, and then desperately pushed her husband away.

"I’m not just targeting my husband, I just feel that all men are obscene, so I’m very resistant." Ms. Zhang said to the doctor distressfully, "Of course, I think my sexual orientation is fine, and I don’t know why?"

"In fact, this is a typical phobia of sexual intercourse and belongs to a kind of female sexual dysfunction." The doctor analyzed.

"Women will have sexual dysfunction? Don’t men get this disease? " Ms. Zhang scratched her head and felt a little outrageous.

"Female sexual dysfunction is not uncommon. There are even specialized sex therapists abroad. Our domestic people are more conservative. Without timely intervention, patients will only become more and more depressed."

When it comes to the life of husband and wife, many people are ashamed to talk about it. Sometimes when they encounter difficulties, they always keep it in their hearts. In women, this phenomenon is always ignored.

Sexual phobia, which is essentially a sexual psychological disorder, belongs to a specific phobia, similar to fear of heights and blood.

Fear of sexual intercourse is medically known asvaginismusIn the process of the same room, you will unconsciously contract the muscles of the vagina and pelvic floor, and then you will feel uncomfortable such as pain. Some women will also have physiological reactions such as palpitation, palpitation, nausea and cold sweat all over the body, and then have a strong fear of the same room.Female sexual dysfunction due to fear of sexual intercourse accounts for about 12~14%.

So, why do women have fear of sexual intercourse?

1, mental stress.

Some women lack a correct understanding of sex life,Excessive nervousness, fear of sexual intercourse, fear of pregnancy, etc., leading to great mental stress, and then fear of it.

2. Suffering from diseases.

Women suffer fromCervicitis, vaginitis, local deformity of vaginaAs well as inflammation, may induce vaginal spasm.

3. Improper life of husband and wife

In the same room,Lack of preparation workCauses the female vaginal opening to be dry,Men are too rude or have sex against women’s wishes.It is easy to cause women to feel pain, even disgust and fear of sex life, and finally cause vaginal spasm.

For women, when they find that they have a strong sense of resistance to sexual life, they must seek medical advice in time to find out the causes and carry out targeted treatment and intervention.

In the process of sexual intercourse, women’s pelvic floor muscles contract a lot, which can accelerate the blood flow out of the pelvic area and help women.Improve premenstrual syndrome, including abdominal discomfort.

In addition, sharing a room properly can also bring these benefits:

1. Enhance cardiopulmonary function

In fact, sexual intercourse is also a good exercise, in which all organs, limbs and joint muscles can be moved, which is helpful to improve cardiopulmonary function.

2. Promote sleep

After a harmonious sexual intercourse, the nervous mood and muscles can be relaxed, and drowsiness will follow, which can help people fall asleep quickly.

3. Help eliminate bad emotions

Harmonious sexual intercourse can release some hormones with calming effect, which can help to eliminate fear and vent bad emotions, and is beneficial to mental health.

4. Delaying the degeneration of reproductive organs

Proper sexual intercourse is also helpful to delay the atrophy and degeneration of reproductive organs, help maintain pelvic floor function and reduce the risk of reproductive tract diseases in the elderly.

Good sexual intercourse can bring many benefits to physical and mental health, but the premise is "good". Many women’s sexual experience is not good, and naturally they can’t get benefits.

1. Strengthen sex education

Education in China has always been in the stage of talking about sexual shame. Most women’s sexual knowledge can only come from their parents and peers, and parents often educate their children in a "threatening" way, which is easy to form a distorted situation and make women feel afraid of sex life.

2. Professional treatment

Clinically, it is generally adopted for women who have fear of sexual intercourse.Hypnotic cognitive behavioral therapyLet women re-establish their cognition of sex, so that women can better alleviate their fears and change their original cognition. If sexual behavior is still unacceptable after treatment, vaginal dilation will be performed according to the patient’s wishes.

3. Investigate diseases

Some women have this disease because of congenital vaginal diseases, so they should go to the hospital in time to investigate the causes and then carry out targeted treatment.

4. Adjust your sexual life style

Full caress must be carried out before sexual intercourse, so that women can take the next step when they are excited, which is helpful to improve vaginal spasm.

Sex is an instinctive physiological reaction that everyone has. You don’t have to feel ashamed. When you find that you have some abnormal performance, you should bravely seek medical treatment.

References:

[1] "There is a realistic version of" masters of sex "in Changsha: treating sexual phobia, and some patients are still virgins after 19 years of marriage". xiaoxiang morning herald, 2019-12-17.

[2] Xiao Xiao. Vaginal spasm should be treated first [J]. Healthy living (second half), 2011.

[3] Zhen Hongli. New progress in diagnosis and treatment of vaginal spasm [J]. China Family Planning and Gynecology, 2016, 8(2):3.

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